Tra la laaaaa
There is a vague, unsettled feeling plaguing me. Unsettled, as in unfinished. School is out, the last hurrah over by noon yesterday. The beginnings of summer plans are formed. Still the feeling lingers.
Oh, yeah. I have to clean my house. That's what's nagging me. Dayum.
I've done 10 loads of laundry yesterday, and will follow up with the rest of the bedding today. In an effort to empty closets and clear floors, I'll be making a big ole donation to the Salvation Army, and passing on mountains of clothing to people with younger kids than mine.
It's like, like, spring cleaning! It's still spring, technically, right? (Hush, naysayers!)
I'm feeling energetic, partly from getting to sleep in 'til 7:30 am this morning, and partly because the hubs is in New York for the week. I think I've mentioned before that I get a weird burst of manic energy when he's out of town, and can accomplish a thousand things, even with the kids underfoot. I miss him, I really do. It's just that when he's home, he likes to relax. And I'll be gosh-darned if HE'S going to relax and I'm going to keep working. So we both relax, and nothing gets finished. Or started. Or whatever.
With his slacker, relaxing hiney on the other side of the country, I find myself contemplating our lack of bathroom decor, and seriously considering rearranging the kids' rooms again. He'd be delighted to have me so industrious when he's at home, but the man just brings out my competitive inner slacker.
Honey, this isn't a sign you should travel more. I'm just sayin'.
My son woke up cranky this morning, having a tantrum or two before 6:30am. Lucky for me, I was still in a fog of sleep, because I pretty much said "Uh-huh, uh-huh, I hear dat. Mmmm. You go, boy!"
Also lucky for me, he was soothed by that, at least temporarily.
Now, he's not so delighted with things. Our TiVo remote is acting up, and sometimes I can get it to behave and sometimes I can't. I suspect someone was teething on it when I wasn't looking. This is worthy of air-siren screams and honest to goodness teeth gnashing. He's gnashing at me, people. What's next? Snarling? Eye-rolling? Breathing fire?
If he starts up with fire breathing, I'm selling him to a sideshow.
Tra la la! At least the girls are still asleep. At 8 am. Wooooo!
I'm going to try not to resent my son's bad mood and this extra hour of sleep that I could've had if I had deflected his ranting with more aplomb. In fact, I'm going to look at this hour as a gift, allowing me to write about his cranky butt, while swilling my weak, sad, pathetic coffee.
If you recall, I have one of those Senseo coffee makers, which I bought because Lauren posted this entry. I love it. Except when I run out of pods.
This morning, there was only one pod in the bag. No problem, I'll just have a half cup. And then I pushed the button for a two-pod full cup and now, I've got all the water, half the coffee. It is NOT coffee that feels as good as it tastes. And that is just a letdown.
Onward.
Comments
You sound like me when my Hubs is gone. I can get the dishes washed & the kitchen swept & wiped down and get the kids into bed in less time when he's not here. I just get into a work mode and get it done. It's kind of like when he takes the kids out and tells me to take a nap? I end up cleaning the house like a maniac instead of using the time alone to relax. [snort-snort] But like you said...I do miss him when he's gone. Hope the two of you have a nice "reunion"...
Posted by: Grace | June 14, 2005 8:47 AM
I sooo know what you mean...when my husband gets home, it's like my day has ended. I haven't even looked at the couch for hours, but suddenly I am stuck to it.
Posted by: JuJuBee | June 14, 2005 9:02 AM
Your laundry pile sounds like mine. We should go Dutch on a laundromat then hire an attendant to do our loads! :)
Thanks for blogrolling me. I'm honored.
Posted by: Robin | June 14, 2005 1:15 PM
Do you need a friggin kick start? Because I can give you one . . .
or maybe just a bottle of wine tonight will do the trick
Posted by: Philip | June 14, 2005 1:57 PM
My son has been possessed by satan for a good month. Last night he refused to go to bed and cried for about an hour before he fell asleep! He'll be two in two weeks. I'm so not looking forward to the next 3 years! My daughter is right on his heels. And why the hell to they get up so early? Why? Is there something we don't know about!?
I like your haircut. I need some grooming. I love the picture of the kids. That's great!
Posted by: jenni | June 14, 2005 3:25 PM
I never clean when my husband is out of town. It's like that whole tree falling in the forest thing. If no one sees me scrubbing the toilet, did I really do it? When I do housework, I expect to be thanked profusely.
Your new do is fab! I can't get my hair that straight in the summer. The humidity gives me Ronald McDonald head.
Posted by: notdonnareed | June 14, 2005 4:19 PM
If you run out of stuff to suck up your energy, feel free to come over here. I have clean laundry taking over the basement, and the toilet is growing a science experiment. Maybe I should send Hubby out of town, see what happens to me...
Posted by: Tammy/averagemom | June 15, 2005 1:53 PM
Oh My! I remember well. My husband was away during the week and when he came home on Friday nights, the house was sparkling! The kids were sparkling! And I was sparkling! Can you tell this was back in the 50's when we didn't know any better?
Posted by: Mizpeg | June 15, 2005 4:18 PM
I've been cleaning since he left on business three days ago. I agree about the "competitive slacker" idea but also I enjoy the temporary tidiness. Then the kids drop in and FG comes home and it all reverts to chaos.
Posted by: vicki | June 15, 2005 5:48 PM